Tuesday, September 18, 2012

Spiked Affair!

Good morning my dear readers and welcome to my blog!
Today I will to tell you all about my Saturday morning!
So I woke up around 11 o'clock and I really wanted to go for a coffee!
I ask my husband if he wanted to go together but what I really meant was "we are going for coffee and its final". All this of course was only in my head because he already made other plans...
"And what is your plan for this morning" I asked him!
"I will go out our country house to cut off some firewood for the fireplace"!
"But it is 30 degrees outside...it's still hot" I said....
"Of course I know that, but what are we are going to do when it will start raining and I will not be able to go and cut some. We will not have enough for winter??"
"We have central heating"... I said…. “Helllloooooo”
Anyway the point of this discussion was that he wanted to get away for a while and something that he likes and although I shouldn't have been mad with him, I was very mad. You something I have a plot in my head and is it doesn’t come out the way I wanted it to be, things can get bad! I know is very unfair but It is so common in our days and I see this all around me and in lots of kinds of relationships.
We all expect from our spouses, friends, family to react in a way that we want and have in our mind! So when I come across the situations I try to step back for a while and think that the person, who I have opposite me. He or she has a different way of thinking, other hobbies, other believes, needs and it is a different personality. As I want from others to respect me for who I am and what I want to do and I have to do the same for with them too.
"Don’t do something that you don’t want others to do to you", especially with your husband or wife because by doing that you are starting a meaningless war!!!
Anyways in the above case I was thinking what was the one thing that it going to make me happy at the time... To go for coffee of course but my girlfriends didn’t had time. I though I could go alone but it was not going to be any fun as I will have no one to gossip with!
So the greatest idea came to head! "SHOPPING"
 I don’t want to come across as a superficial person but some time shopping seems to be the best idea in a lot of "problems" :)
I made my shopping plan - location, time, needs, and budget - and I got into the car! After half an hour I found myself just wondering around in the stores without buying anything I started feeling like those women on “WHAT NOT TO WEAR” (TV show) at their first day who they don’t have a clue what to buy and they end up buying nothing !
However I continued wondering around and I come across TOPSHOP. As I was I student in U.K, TOPSHOP has a special place in my hard and I appreciate it a lot! I got in but nothing interesting there too...but I was ready to leave; there it was! An amazing pair of spiked flat shoes! I wanted them so bad. I had to have them. I looked around and thank God they had my size! I tried them once and I headed for the counter... I paid them and I left very happy about my new possession. Now I am looking forward to wear them and of Corse I made a plan how I am going to wear them with. I might even come up with an event just to wear them! Ha, ha, ha....

P.S: I was walking to my car I saw a dreamy spiked jacket....I only hope to need more firewood so I can get mad again!!!! :)